10 Things Not to Do if You Want Someone to Stop Smoking for Good
6: Don’t Use Fear to Force a Change

Many smokers are already afraid of the health consequences of smoking, including lung cancer and heart disease. Constantly reminding them of these dangers might not be effective. In fact, smokers are likely aware of the risks, and fear-based tactics can come across as patronizing. Instead, share your personal fears of losing them due to smoking-related health problems, which may be a more impactful way of connecting emotionally.